Living Abroad: Missing a Holiday (or More) Far from Home

Bonjour, mes amis! My family was on vacation in central Oregon earlier this week. Now that we've returned home, I love seeing my children spend long periods playing with their familiar playthings again. The old becomes new with absence!

Yesterday was a strange Thanksgiving Day for us. We celebrated with my family a day in advance, and we'll celebrate with my husband's family tomorrow, so our actual Thanksgiving Day was uneventful. The quiet of this holiday reminded me of Christmas 2004, when I was a university exchange student living in France. I spent that Christmas Eve in an inexpensive Paris hotel.

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Avoiding Resentment in Marriage

Before our marriage seven years ago, my husband and I had a few sessions of premarital counseling. (It was paid for by my parents, and at one point my mama wanted to know what was being discussed. The counselor, bless him, didn't share.) The counseling was pretty straightforward, as we were a confident couple who'd already dated for five years. (We have long-distance excuses, among others.) In any case, two agreements came out of that counseling:

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Getting Free Cultural Passes + Discount Museum Admission for Children

The Japanese Garden. The Classical Chinese Garden. Portland Art Museum. The Children's Museum. The libraries in my area offer a free cultural pass to each of these places with no advance reservation required. The passes are available for one day checkout and admit several family members. You might have similar cultural passes available where you live. Here's the scoop:

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